Nipple Shields – To Use or Not To Use?

I used to hate nipple shields and never used them. My bias was based on literature that came out many years ago that indicated they caused nipple damage, usually because they were used incorrectly. They also contributed to lazy latches with ineffective drainage of the breast leading to a subsequent decreased milk production and infant weight loss. So I basically just steered clear of them, thinking that no good could come from using them.

Then in the fall of 2007, I attended a conference hosted by the Rhode Island Breastfeeding Coalition (RIBC) on “The Challenges of Breastfeeding the Near Term Infant.” The speaker was Molly Pessl, RN BSN IBCLC, and she changed my mind about nipple shields. She taught us all how they really get the baby who isn’t quite term in their development nursing at the breast. These babies look like they should be able to nurse without difficulty, but developmentally, they are not quite there and the shield makes all the difference. Many of them were bottle fed and were used to plastic. The plastic shield tricks them into getting on the breast and its firmness makes it easier for them to drain the breast when used correctly. I started using them in these circumstances and found that she was absolutely right! Christina Smillie MD, FAAP FABM, who spoke at the 2009 RIBC conference on “Baby Led Breastfeeding” agreed with this use of the nipple shield, and supported anything that gets the baby nursing directly from the breast.

Now I sometimes feel as if I am passing nipple shields out like candy. I don’t leave home without them. They are always the last resort, after first assessing the situation and trying to get the baby to nurse without it. I make sure the family is aware of all the contradictions and side effects of improper use, and agrees to frequent weight checks and follow up with me. I explain that use of the shield is a temporary thing. I find that usually after about 2-3 weeks of good nursing and weight gain, the baby doesn’t need it any more. They wean easily and all those difficulties in the beginning are a distant memory. Once they understand all that, we give it a try….

I have had many moms burst into tears when I help them latch their baby on the breast with the shield. They are thrilled to see milk in the shield and so proud of the intake we are able to measure on my scale. The swallowing they witness is much stronger than what had been happening without the shield, if they were ever even able to get the baby on the breast! The family is happy, and then so am I.

There are two other situations in which I use nipple shields. One is for the mother with flat or inverted nipples. That is probably not a surprise to anyone. It provides the baby with something to latch onto without causing the mother any pain. I also use them for babies who latch without incident, look absolutely perfect on the outside, and despite numerous suggestions on positioning and support , still cause their mother pain. I never am really sure why this happens and nothing fixes it. But the shield does. Mom nurses pain free, and like the other situations, the baby eventually weans off it.

So this is all good, right? When used in these situations and while working with someone knowledgeable about breastfeeding and infant growth and development, it really does fix problems and get the baby nursing. However, now I am running into a much bigger problem.

You can get a nipple shield anywhere. Target, Babies-R -Us, and Walmart all sell them. As a result, I am seeing moms at 3 weeks post partum, who brought a shield to the hospital after buying it in the store and started nursing with it immediately after birth. They never even tried to latch on their own. They assumed that since it was in the store, it was just one more thing they had to have to breastfeed. I am called in because the baby isn’t gaining weight, mom reports she has no milk and had to start supplementation. And at this point, there is not a lot I can do. The hormonal response that establishes and maintains a woman’s milk supply has come and gone. The window of opportunity to get things off to a good start has been missed. It is heartbreaking to have to tell a mom this and have her realize she probably never needed to use the shield in the first place.

What has typically been happening in situations like this is that the baby has spent a tremendous amount of time at the breast, using the nipple shield as a pacifier. The shield slides in and out of the baby’s mouth, and the breast is not drained. I see this immediately when I ask the mom to show me what she has been doing. The only milk the baby gets is from the mom’s letdown. Mom interprets the length of time at the breast as a good thing, not realizing that the baby is wasting calories with all the ineffective sucking, and not gaining weight. The ineffective draining of the breast then causes her milk to dry up, as you have to remove the milk in order for it to be replaced.

The key to all this is that these feeding devices are intended to be used under medical supervision. While it clearly states that on the packaging, it is on the back and the last thing mentioned, after stating all the things a nipple shield is good for. I have complained to the manufacturer about this, and have been told that they are working to make that statement more noticeable, but will continue selling them in retail stores.

At HBHM Inc., we have a very specific protocol that we follow when using shields with a family that involves frequent follow up and weight checks. I am planning to revise that protocol with our new website launch to include not selling these shields to moms unless they are working with us or I can confirm they are working with another healthcare provider. I am sure many mothers will not appreciate that extra requirement. But I don’t want to be responsible for providing someone with something, that when used incorrectly and without guidance, can have such grave consequences. I will let the manufacturers and retailers get the credit for that! 

{Guest Post} Tips & Ideas from Newborn Photographer Jean Monti

We are incredibly lucky to spend our day with such wonderful moms and their precious babies. There is no question – the newborn phase goes by fast! Cherish those sweet snuggles, enjoy this special time with your little one, and take lots of photos!

In our guest post today, we share with you some great tips and ideas for newborn portraits from Rhode Island & Massachusetts Photographer and Artist – Jean Monti. Enjoy!

NEWBORN PHOTOGRAPHY PORTRAITS

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TOP QUALITY NEWBORN PHOTOS: HOW JEAN MONTI PUTS HER HEART INTO NEWBORN PHOTOGRAPHY PORTRAITS.
I love newborn photography and look forward to every newborn photography session with excitement and enthusiasm.  Imagine welcoming new babies into your family every month!  I have the honor of this experience every time I welcome a new family into my home studio. Can you image the joy and love I am surrounded with during every session? Newborns represent innocence, purity, goodness, and so much hope for our future. I always try and photograph them in a wide variety of poses to be sure I capture the present newness that will change so quickly with each and every passing day. I love how cozy they look swaddled in a soft wrap on a fur blanket, and how beautiful they are in a basket bathed in sunlight in a creative and natural setting, or how secure and loved they are when in the arms of their adoring parents.   The details of their rosebud lips, and their tiny little toes are important because we never want to forget how sweet and little they are.

Sunlight cascading through a window on a newborn is photographed by Jean Monti Photography in her Cumberland RI studio

Sunlight cascading through a window on a newborn is photographed by Jean Monti Photography in her Cumberland RI studio

It is best to photograph newborns during the first 14 days of their life. I understand how exhausted parents feel during this time, but I have never had a parent regret scheduling time to have professional photographs of their newborn. I highly recommend capturing this fleeting and special time in your life with a professional, but if you would like to try it on your own, here is what I suggest for ideas and tips.

Newborn Photographer, Jean Monti, photographs newborn at the Jean Monti Photography studio located in Cumberland, RI

Newborn Photographer, Jean Monti, photographs newborn at the Jean Monti Photography studio located in Cumberland, RI

Detail of a newborn’s head being held by the hands of her father and mother.

Detail of a newborn’s head being held by the hands of her father and mother.

Detail image of a newborns tiny feet was captured in the photo studio of Jean Monti

Detail image of a newborns tiny feet was captured in the photo studio of Jean Monti

Jean Monti loves to document the smallest details of a newborns lips during a newborn photography session

Jean Monti loves to document the smallest details of a newborns lips during a newborn photography session

NEWBORN PHOTO IDEAS AND TIPS BY JEAN MONTI

PHOTOGRAPHING A NEWBORN BABY

Use a really good camera! I too think the mobile device cameras have come a long way for fun candid shots, but they are absolutely no substitute for a DSLR with a really good lens when capturing fine art portraits. You cannot control aperture, speed, or ISO with a mobile device.

Have a plan! I always go over color schemes, where the clients want to hang the finished portraits, do they want to fill an album, do they want 50% or 90% of the images to be just the newborn and the rest to be with the parents, etc.  It is best to photograph a newborn just after they eat and when they are asleep. Mom should avoid certain foods if nursing because the baby will be moved around more than usual and certain foods will make them more upset than usual. Within the first 15 minutes and while sound asleep, photograph them swaddled and wrapped lying down on a bed or a covered beanbag. This way you are guaranteed to have something great before moving on to more difficult poses where their body is exposed. Also, make sure the room and your hands are very warm. Babies love to be in constant contact, so I stay very close, hold their hands and legs close to their body, and always move them gently and slowly so as to not startle them. Whatever you do, don’t change them on a cold plastic changing pad! Imagine someone lifting you out of bed in the morning, undressing you, and then placing your warm body on a cold plastic pad!  Next, you can try to place them in a basket, but always have someone close by to make sure baby is safe and nothing in the basket is poking or hurting them in any way. Make the bed of the basket soft with blankets and/or fur and softly cushion their head.  At this time you can swap out hats, or headbands, and slowly try and remove the wrap.

Onto the Next Phase - Preparing for Change as My Youngest Starts Kindergarten

A throwback from 2007 that many of you can relate to as your children start a new school year.

I am a woman on the verge of freedom. After sixteen years at home, the youngest of my four sons is off to a full day of Kindergarten in the fall. I am at the same time, elated and depressed. I alternate between euphoria at the possibilities that are opening up for me, and hysterical tears as I experience each last milestone with my baby. Preschool is over. We sat together for the last time at First Friday Mass, waving at his big brothers. Next time I go, he will be sitting with his classmates. He is done with Eager Beavers at the YMCA. I no longer have a child to take to the playgroup I have been attending weekly for 8 years. Even as we go shopping at the grocery store, I am reminded that come fall, I can do this by myself. Think of the money I will save! And how quickly I will get it done! Then the tears start, as I realize my constant companion will be otherwise occupied come September.

I should be happy, right? Everywhere I go, I see mothers with young children. I remember how tiring it is to carry a car seat, reason with a 2 year old, nurse a baby for the third time in 2 hours, race home before naptime, and beg a six year old to run and get me a diaper, again. I vividly remember the energy it took to take care of all of them and their needs, while mine forever took a back seat. I see the fatigue in my friends’ faces whose schedules still revolve around their little ones. I hear it in my clients’ voices when I try to reassure them that this particular phase won’t last forever. I am frequently reminded of a quote from one of my favorite authors, Kathleen Huggins. “If you find it hard, it’s because it is hard.” And it was.

But it has also been one of the best things I have ever done. And if I had more money and energy, and was a little bit younger, I would do it all over again. I’d love the chance to get another marriage proposal from a 3 year old or have a 5 year old tell me, “Mom, you’re my whole world.” I want to have a newborn stop crying immediately when I pick him up and feel a little hand grab a hold of mine while walking through a crowd. I’d even love to rock my sick toddler in my arms in the middle of the night. These are the memories that I cherish, and long for.

And yet, this phase of my life is almost over. And in so many ways, the new phase is terrific. I have built-in babysitters and can go out to dinner with my husband, or for a run in the morning before anyone wakes up. We actually get where we are going mostly on time now and my youngest prides himself on helping me. My 9 year old will still talk to me when no one else in the family wants to. I love nothing more than sitting on the couch with my two teenagers, rehashing the day, and laughing till I cry when I hear of their escapades. I am amazed at the men they are all becoming, and excited for their futures.

So, what is a woman to do in this situation? I have agonized about it, and finally decided. I am getting a puppy. It’s a boy and he’s coming home Labor Day Weekend. But don’t tell my kids! It’s a surprise, and we are on to our next phase.